I know for certain I’m not heterosexual – without a stable gender, I’m not even sure I could be. Additionally, I realized I don’t know what exactly “attraction” means. I knew before coming to that particular realization that I’m also not only, and haven’t always been, attracted to men. I don’t know what gender I am anymore, if any. I thought I was gay because I thought I was a man, and I thought I was only and always attracted to other men. And maybe I was for some of that time – there’s nothing wrong with being gay.
Originally posted March 1, 2016 by Hari Ziyad at įor a while, I thought I was gay.